Drew Rozell, Ph.D.

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A measure of success

May 21, 2009 drewrozell 2 Comments

We all get to define what a successful life means. 

It’s a personal thing, of course. Different people, different values. No right, no wrong.

But it’s still important to define the rules of the game for oneself. Without rules, without paramaters, without a definition of winning, well, there’s no game. 

I frequently write about the importance of defining what a successful life feels like. 

What I notice for myself (and for most people I talk to) that the feeling most associated with success — what people REALLY want — is to feel free in their lives.

Free to choose. Free to live according to their preferences. Free to be. Free to say yes. Free to say no.

I am reminded of all this becuase my friend just called.

It’s a lovely day — looks like we’re going to hit 80 degrees. My friend was so inspired he took a personal day from work. He’s heading out right now to buy a kayak (something he’s talked about for years). And he’s excited, of course. 

Did I want to meet him for a paddle on the lake?

My answer took no thought.

Of course I do.

My work will be done by noon. Any other obligations are easily set aside.

The day is here. Life is now. Soak it up!

And the thought of ending up on a lake today fills my body with joy and excitment. 

I like that my friends think to call me when they are filled with inspiration. They know that I am likely to say YES. They know that I have created a life where I have the space to say YES. 

That makes me feel successful. 

That’s my definition of winning the game.

What’s yours?

 

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  1. Debbie says

    May 26, 2009 at 10:11 am

    Hi Drew,
    Fabulous! I can’t recall in our coaching if I ever pinpointed the sentence “I live like I’m on vacation” but that is something that I need to be reminded of.

    I just wanted to tell you how, among all the other stuff I receive in my email inbox on a daily basis, I am always excited….yes, really, excited, to read what you have to say. I know that it will be insightful, often funny, or maybe poignant, and most importantly, that it will make me think. I’m so very glad to know you.

    Have a great day today, whatever you choose to do.

    Love,
    Debbie

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    • drew says

      May 26, 2009 at 3:01 pm

      hi Debbie — I remember that sentence from our work together, yes… I share the sentiment.

      And moments before I got your comment, I thought to myself how great it would feel to get a note of encouragement today.

      Turned out to be you!

      Thank you for that!

      Reply

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