Drew Rozell, Ph.D.

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The Limits of DIY

February 8, 2010 drewrozell 6 Comments

I bought a new iPod the other day. 160GB. A real bad boy.

I have about one fifth of my music collection on my old iPod, and it was signaling “No Mas” when I tried to coax it into more action.

I’m on a decluttering/organization/simplify kick. Want to get rid of the CD clutter and have all my music and lectures in the palm of my hand. A simple plan.

But the execution of this plan proved to be more challenging.

Like my old iPod, my MacBook laptop was waving me off, telling me the hard disk was full. I could not understand how this was the case, but the logic of my computer was unyielding to my protests. So, before I could use my iPod, I’d need to solve the hard disk problem.

I have some strange perversion in wanting to do things for myself. I’m sure that it serves me in some positive ways, but it feels like I usually end up taking on projects that are beyond the scope of my skills/knowledge/interest.

I am reluctant to ask for help. And I suppose that I am sometimes reluctant to pay for help. Why pay when I can do it? (This especially ironic because my living is based on people investing in me to help them in some way.)

Back to my issue…

So my first approach reflected my self-reliant programming.

I went on various websites looking for answers. I spent at least two hours hunting around and found myself entering lines of DOS-like code into my Mac (into a Mac, mind you!) with little idea of what the hell I was doing. Hitting my wall, I called Apple.

They wanted 50 bucks for support. At first I was miffed, coming up with some cockamamie protest that I’d just bought a $250 iPod and could not use it. The rep remained polite but firm. The issue was with the computer and I was out of warranty. He told me he believed he could help me.

When I heard those words — I can help you — I believed him. And that’s what I really wanted.

Help. Relief. Ease.

I wanted to be free of this problem. I wanted to get on with the organizing of my life. In that moment I could see how silly I was being in my resistance to invest in help.

I reached for my credit card, and for the next two hours on a Saturday morning, Daniel solved all my problems and then some. In time and energy, the investment was worth many times what I paid.

Getting help — good help — is not an expense. Doesn’t matter if we’re talking about someone cleaning your house, creating your website, or coaching you through a problem.

They are investments.

Wealthy people invest in getting their problems solved.

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The Opportunity of Crisis

February 21, 2009 drewrozell

So the United States is going to hell in a hand basket. That’s for sure, right? If you don’t believe me, well, clearly you are a fool who’s not paying attention.

At the very least, surely we can agree that America is in crisis, yes?

But what does that really mean? What are the dynamics of a crisis?

Well, crisis is bad. Crisis is what we DO NOT want. Not cool, right?

But what if crisis is necessary?

Just as the dark lets us discover the light or sadness allows us to define and experience joy, we live a world of duality. There’s always contrast — what we DO NOT want — to allow us to define and choose what we DO WANT. There will ALWAYS BE contrast.

In this period of economic crisis, the universal desire for prosperity has never been greater in the history of the world.

Our collective intention is there, the only question is which people will allow this prosperity into their lives and which people will not. To allow it in, you must be a vibrational match for your desire. In other words, right now DO YOU FEEL prosperous? The truth of your response will be reflected in what you create. Aligning with prosperity is a discipline, a practice. It’s not difficult, but it requires your attention. (This is what we do in my Very Cool Life Network group, by the way…)

The great news is that YOU are always in charge of how you feel. YOU are in charge of where you put your attention. YOU are in charge of whether you tune into what YOU DON’T WANT or WHAT YOU DESIRE.

Headlines, pundits, politicians, economists, and experts are not in charge of your life (unless you promote them to to that position).

Write your own story. Choose your own path. Mind your own vibration.

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In any crisis, someone gets rich. I just saw how foreclosed properties in Ft Myers Florida were being auctioned off… $400K houses were going for $50K! No matter what the circumstances (crisis and opportunity are sides of the same coin), some people will prosper.

BECAUSE THEY CHOOSE TO.

Why not be one of those people?

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What does the Wall Street Meltdown Mean? You Choose.

September 23, 2008 drewrozell 17 Comments

Reader and friend Dan sent me this e-mail the other day…

“During the financial crisis I find myself checking your blog multiple times a day for some spiritual relief!”

I don’t know if I’ll provide any spiritual relief, but I do have some thoughts on recent events, and since you asked…

So it’s being reported that the fall of these Wall Street institutions and subsequent bailouts has erased something like 1 trillion dollars of wealth. One trillion. Big number.

That’s such a big number that yesterday I got a letter from my stock advisor dude. This pretty much sums up his message.  (God, I love YouTube!)

First, I find it interesting to look at what is at the core of this event. Not in the sense of blame (greed! foolishness! instant gratification society! blah blab blah), but understanding the true dynamics of what occurred. 

What happened was a crisis of confidence. The quote below makes the point well.

What we are witnessing may be the greatest destruction of financial wealth that the world has ever seen — paper losses measured in the trillions of dollars. Corporate wealth. Oil wealth. Real estate wealth. Bank wealth. Private-equity wealth. Hedge fund wealth. Pension wealth. It’s a painful reminder that, when you strip away all the complexity and trappings from the magnificent new global infrastructure, finance is still a confidence game — and once the confidence goes, there’s no telling when the selling will stop.  —  Steven Pearlstein from the Washington Post, 9/18/2008

 

For all the dollars in circulation, there’s no gold in the treasury backing the value of that currency. The U.S. government did away with that a long time ago. They just kept printing money and we all entered into the collective agreement that little slips of colored paper carry some value. 

My point is this — money is made up. An idea. Confidence. A belief.

Never forget that!

That’s the good news. If money is a belief, then guess who’s in charge? You, my friend. You are in charge. Not Wall Street. Not stock tickers. Not talking heads on television. Not “the economy” or the “housing market.” Not computer screens telling you your balance of the value of your IRA. Not bills that arrive in the mail. 

You.

You are in charge of your feeling and beliefs about money. You are in charge of the degree to which you allow money to flow into your life.

Of course, there’s a catch to this good news. This requires you to be responsible for how you feel about money, responsible for your confidence level, and responsible for the beliefs you allow to touch your life…

As you might guess, this is where most people fall off the wagon. In fact, most jump off and head for zee hills, screaming. The REALITY they say (with a charge in their voice) is that I’m worth less than I was yesterday! I won’t be able to retire! My business will dry up in this slow economy! I’m doomed, man! Don’t you hear me? Dooooooomed!

You get the idea.

And I say, if that’s the reality you choose — if you forfeit responsibility for managing how you feel with regard to money and lose your cool — well, money will return the favor. 

Again, we’re told a trillion dollars evaporated. And certainly, that’s a sobering number. But you know what? I didn’t feel a thing.  The next morning the sun still came up. The geese flew by. My coffee was hot. The 80 bucks I had in my money clip was still there. My cat kept eating flies. My wife still seemed to dig me.

If I were to check online at my investments, my guess is that the numbers on the screen would be different than the month before. Probably lower. But I invest for the long haul, so I don’t much concern myself with volatility. And the greater truth is that I’m only really concerned with how I feel today. I’m not thinking about retirement. I do not believe in the concept of “security” (it’s a euphemism for living in fear).

I’m focused on the now. And I believe that if I focus on now, feel good… well let’s just say that living this way works much better for me that spending my time worrying about a boogeyman (or boogeymen) who supposedly looms just around the dark corner, waiting to pounce on me. In this moment, right now, the only moment we have, everything is cool. Why go anywhere else in your mind?

In short, this requires you to live in the present and actively manage how you feel in any given moment. Many people say this is folly, foolish, maybe even dangerous. They believe that it’s more responsible or more helpful to hem, haw, and worry. So be it. I’ve given up my need to convert anyone — we’re all free to choose how we want to live.

But I’ll say this in closing. A common goal (one that I have to) is financial freedom. But it’s critical to remember that that freedom does not exist in a bank statement, an investment account, or in little slips of colored paper. True freedom exists in only one place: Your mind.

Why not choose that? Right now.

 

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