So you have a new desire, eh?
Of course you do. When your desires stop flowing, some old friends will be lowering you into the ground. But until then, new desires will continue to flow through you like oxygen.
Now what is this new desire you have? It can be anything, of course… A new lover? A bank balance with five or six figures? A strong, healthy body? A job that you love? A roster full of cool new clients? A seaside vacation in Italy? A shiny new Lexus in your garage?
Whatever your particular desire, if it feels “big” to you, then chances are good that you’ve had it for a while and up until now it’s remained outside your grasp. Perhaps frustratingly so…
Well, if you’re ready to ALLOW your desire to come into your life (instead of continuing to beat the “I’m going to try and figure this out” drum), then I have 3 simple questions to share with you.
Before offering the questions, I want to remind you why these questions are worth answering from a metaphysical perspective. Remember, you are a vibrational being and every one of your desires exists in vibrational form the moment you think about it. If you want to experience the manifestation of your desire, you simply need to be a vibrational match for what you’re asking for. In other words, you’ve got to believe it in order for you to see it.
Now, these questions are meant to guide you to the vibrational place of HAVING YOUR DESIRES, NOW. When you have it NOW, when you feel it NOW, when you expect it NOW, it’s yours.
That’s the way the universe works, always and forever. Manifestation is really simple. All is requires is your attention and the proper focus.
As you’ll see, I’ll be answering these questions in real-time for myself for my own new desire — it’s a new coaching offering called The Freedom Sessions that I’m really thrilled to be sharing with you. Check it out.
Finally, you’ll see some of my “thoughts behind the thoughts” within the [brackets].
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Here are THE THREE QUESTIONS to ensure that you HAVE IT NOW.
(You can use them for ANY desire you have. You can answer them all, or just choose one that feels best to you. Doesn’t matter.)
1) What does it LOOK LIKE to have it now?
2) What does it FEEL LIKE to have it now?
3) Imagine you have your desire NOW. It’s here. Now imagine telling your friend the story as to how everything unfolded. Write it out.
That’s it! This whole process should not take too long, or feel like “work.” It should feel like an expansive, fun exercise or put it aside.
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Okay, now I am going to share my personal answers to these questions…
20 new members in my coaching group, The Freedom Sessions.
[Notice my desire is specific. I want 20 new members. Not “some” or “a bunch” or “more”. Twenty… Now, eventually I want 200 total members, but I’m not up to speed with that belief yet. So I felt through things and 20 feels easy and good. The idea is NOT to stretch yourself here.]
1) What does it (20 new members) LOOK LIKE?
[Answer the question in a grounded way that’s meaningful to you. Make it REAL, not pie-in-the-sky ethereal.]
I see people registering via e-mail. The registrations flash across my phone, iPad, and computer. I see notifications that say “NEW ORDER, Merchant E-mail receipt”.
I look inside the message and check out the names. Many of the names are familiar — there’s people I’ve worked with before (and really liked) and some folks I’ve had some sort of connection with. And then there’s the new people… They bring an extra spice to the mix! I feel the anticipation of meeting someone new and introducing someone to this very cool experience. Sometimes I Google them just to see if I can put a face to the name.
I keep a list of the members in a spreadsheet on my desktop where I make note of their sessions. I really like seeing this list get longer.
My online schedule has more appointments in it, and I like looking at my calendar. It feels like the perfect balance between appointments and free time.
This is easy. This is done. This is just beginning.
[These are the real-world, brass tacks, boots-on-the-ground way this desire looks in the context of my life. Pretty simple.
It’s worth noting what I DID NOT do here… specifically I didn’t mention how much money would be generated from these 20 new members. Personally, whenever I have a new business desire and then try to attach dollars to a particular outcome, well, it just never works very well for me. So I keep my money and my clients separate. In other words, I want my client to be a channel of how money gets to me, but not the source. When I see clients as my source of money, it feels very constrictive and tends to breed worry.
So, if you notice you feel similarly, you can just go through the 3 questions again regarding a specific amount of money as your desire. In any case, pay attention to how you feel when answering.]
2) What does it (having 20 new members) FEEL LIKE?
I always love seeing those new order e-mails. Feels like a Christmas present because I never know what the order is for (a $12 book? A $300 product? A $77 new coaching member?) until I open the e-mail.
When I see the e-mail come in, I really love knowing that everything is automated. In this way, everything is “scalable” for the future. All I need to do is pick up the phone when it rings and do what I love to do. Easy.
It’s always a bit of a rush to sell something I’ve created. It’s not unlike having someone say Yes to going on a date with you. Just a lovely feeling of connection. And then there’s the anticipation of getting to talk with someone new. The real fun is that it’s going to be better than either of us expected and we’re both getting exactly what we want from the interaction.
I really love knowing that what I am offering is EXACTLY what this person was looking for. To this person, my service feels serving them a cold drink when they’re really thirsty. Everybody wins, always.
I love how I learn something new on every call with a client. Our conversations are on the leading edge of the leading edge and I always feel energized and aligned when I get off the calls. It’s just the best.
This all feels really easy. It’s inevitable in fact. I love having more and more of what I am wanting.
[Typing this section required me to pause and go inward and really pay attention to my feelings. For me, it required the most focus.]
3) Tell the story to a friend…
“You know, I fought with myself on this for a while. I would wake up, tweak my sales page, write different copy, dwell on making the offer “just right”… But I could never get it out there. I just couldn’t send out an e-mail to my list. There was like an invisible wall. I mean, I could have, but it really would have felt like I was forcing something, trying to meet a deadline, or ‘be productive’.
Now, to be clear, just sitting on this for a couple months (yes, months!) and NOT sharing it felt very uncomfortable to me. I wanted to take action to make this discomfort go away (Just send it out!) and that’s the course the motivational-types adhere to… (“Take massive action!”) … but it never feels right to me.
I knew that my discomfort was not a problem to solve or a wall of fear to sledge-hammer through. Rather, my reluctance to act was my knowing, my intuition… and my intuition was simply telling me I wasn’t yet aligned with my new offer. I didn’t need to figure out WHY. I didn’t need to fix anything (though I tried, for sure). Really I just had to let go and relax. It would all happen when it happened. It would all be perfect. And I would know when to do something (whatever that would be) when the time was right, just like I know when to grab some water when I’m thirsty, because that’s what alignment feels like — the next natural step.
Turns out when I sat down one morning to align myself, these three questions were JUST THERE and I was drawn to answering them for myself. As I focused my my attention in this way and wrote out my answers, the idea to share this process while introducing my own desire just felt like a cool thing to do. It felt like relief and recognition… like, “oh, this is it! This is what I’ve been waiting for.”
That’s it really.
From there, everything else took care of itself and turned out so much better than I could have ever planned. Things just took on a life of their own, you know? And man, I just love it when that happens… There are few better feelings in life then when you let go and things unfold in such cool ways that are beyond your personal orchestration. Being in that flow just makes me so feel connected and alive.
And so today, the momentum just continues rolling downhill. More and more orders come in, more fantastic people join my tribe. This is the best thing I’ve ever created and it’s just so much fun to connect with so many cool people in a way that feels so expansive to both of all of us. Deep down, I always knew it could be this way, but it just took me a while to allow it all to be this natural and easy.
[As I typed all these words, I just let them flow, noticing how every word felt as I saw it on my screen. When I typed something and I felt my energy drop (even a little), I deleted that line and found the words that felt better.]
So, that’s all there is to this. Having what you want is not complicated, it just requires your focus and alignment. If it feels better, I encourage you to spend 20 minutes or so writing out your own answers to the three questions.
I hope you found this valuable and yes, I would really like you to check out my very cool new coaching offering, The Freedom Sessions. This is especially true if you are a fan of the Law of Attraction and the work of Abraham-Hicks…
And yes, there’s a sweet offer for the next 20 of you to join me…
Hope to connect with you soon,
P.S. I guarantee this will be the most powerful coaching you’ve ever received or your money back. Just check out the “before and after” shots of this young man regarding his experience with The Freedom Sessions…