lush life.
There’s a 3-step formula for creating ANYTHING you want in you life
It’s simple.
But you cannot skip a step.
You ready for it?
So here it is, the 3-step formula for getting anything you want in your life.
1) Decide.
2) Commit.
3) Attract.
Simple, huh?
So what’s the problem, then?
Most people just want Step 3, instant manifestation. And when that does not happen, they get frustrated. They begin to doubt whether the formula works and as a result, they forget about the formula.
But the formula never fails. Never.
If you do not like what you’re seeing show up in your life, you can be certain you’ve blown past something in steps 1 or 2.
Always. Bet the house. Take it to the bank.
Because all the work comes in the first 2 steps.
Given guidance, most people are quite good at Step 1. Step 2 is most often the bigger challenge, the place most people are out of practice.
Step 2 is where you make your excuses. Step 2 is where you allow yourself to live in a state of doubt and fear. Step 2 is where you allow yourself to settle for less.
Step 2 will often feel risky. Step 2 will often mean you need to spend some money on yourself. Step 2 will mean you need to step up your game.
But it’s really more fun to play at a higher level.
And when you change your relationship with Step 2, your whole life will change.
Because the formula always works.
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For men who are ready to focus on Step 2, there’s my new program, 40XP.
I thought step 2 was ‘allow’.
What do you see as the difference between allow and commit? Purely passive/active?
@Fiona Leonard: hey Fiona —
in the Abraham-Hicks model, yes, the steps are:
1) Ask
2) It’s Given
3) Allow
while my inspiration came from another place, there’s no doubt that I subscribe to this formula as well… and, I think, the two map onto each other very well…
Allowing sounds passive, doesn’t it… but in practice, this is the most challenging step, and it is by no means passive. Allowing means that you have to get yourself in vibrational alignment with whatever you are asking for. Certainly, that does not happen without some awareness, focus, and practice.
ALLOWING and COMMITTING are both really about mindset. But, perhaps, we think of allowing in passive terms, imagining we can sit back, do nothing different, and our desires will come knocking on the door. Allowing really requires different actions (or at least different responses).
Commitment (to me), is about choosing different responses (and often actions) and sticking to them. No matter what. Making the commitment that nothing is more important that choosing to feel good is just another way of allowing.
Same things, I think… but with a different energy underneath them.
(and when I see people “fail,” to tell them that they are not “allowing” is not super helpful, in my experience. showing them where they have not committed helps them reframe…)
or something like this!
nice distinction