Making clear decisions as to what you will have and how you will have it eliminates the need for boundaries.
“Piles of money are found on the ground, not in the clouds…”
– From a coaching conversation with my friend Paul
In short, I take this to mean that if you do not GROUND your desire (i.e., connect to the REAL feeling of having whatever it is you desire, even the less sexy bits), it’s less likely to come into your experience. The tendency is to think about your desires in the context of puppy dog tails, rainbow gumdrops, and galloping unicorns. And that won’t cut it.
Nothing makes me feel wealthier than spending money on things that delight me.
– This just came to me while writing the newest issue of my VCL magazine, The Vibe. You can subscribe here, but it ain’t free.